There are lots of times when my wife and I are busy, but, I take a minute and write a simple little note to say "I love you" and leave it on her computer keyboard or some place where I know she'll find it and it will make her smile.
When relationships fall apart, most of the time, it can be attributed to a lack of romance.
Don't fall into the trap of thinking that romance and sex are the same thing. Lots of relationships grow weak because they are not romantic even though sex is frequent.
You have to remember that love is a combination of these three things (See the Greek words to the right).The first is translated "passion" and is the real power of love.
The second is translated as physical intimacy.
The third is translated "The Love of God" and refers to genuine caring for another person. It is often called "Brotherly Love" and includes things like putting another person's feelings before your own. It is sharing, caring, consideration, generosity, etc... A truly loving relationship is built on these three things.
Passion is that thing which puts power in the written word. If you want to win the heart of a lady, passion is the magic ingredient. To keep the lady of your dreams, you need all three types of love in full measure.
Now, put your heart into it.
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