When it comes to love, treat it like fine wine. Love should be better with age. The more time you take to cultivate it, the stronger and more savory it becomes. True love casts out fear and doubt.
The pickup artist wants sex. The pickup artist wants a fast score. The pickup
artist is in the relationship game only for the fast-track. Anything that takes too
long is no longer worthy or pursuit. Some of them will wait longer than others,
but, the more people they have been with previously, the less likely they are to
wait. Although, some of them will be playing multiple ladies at the same time.
The genuine romantic is very unlikely to be interested in more than one woman
at a time, unless all are kept at a distance while he searches for a genuinely
romantic lady.
At one time, I had been seeing four different women in casual situations. I was
looking for a life-long relationship. Of the four, two of the ladies might have
become a life-long thing if certain circumstances did not exist. In both cases, I
had plans to spend my son's teen years with him and that meant I had to relocate and take the lady with me. Neither of those two possible mates would be easily convinced to move. Therefore, I did not try to take the relationships to the next level.
In the same situation, the pickup artist would have taken the ladies to bed with
him and not cared a thing about it.
The goal of the romantic is finding someone with whom to spend the rest of your life. Remember, like a fine wine, love gets better with age. Your attachment to each other, and your commitment to each other should be stronger with the passing of seasons, of years, of decades.
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